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Steph reminded me of this yesterday – welcome back, Steph! – and I realized we hadn't had a formal discussion about what to do with Toshiko.

I know there have been threats of violence, and I think we can all agree that none of us want to see her hurt, even if we're angry with her. Therefore, I want to recommend that she's escorted by at least one warden every time she's out of her own cabin. This probably isn't going to be fun for anyone but it's for her own safety. There's also the possibility that someone under the duress she's going through might attempt self-harm or suicide, so any wardens who work with her will have to be on the lookout for that. Is there anyone who'd like to volunteer? [Please don't let Mark be the only one with his hand raised; he can't exactly safeguard Tosh in the bathroom or the shower.]

Secondly, Iris and I have been discussing a, uh, public forum with Toshiko, basically. Consider it a hearing, or at least a chance for her to explain her thought process and actions. This isn't necessarily a completely therapeutic act, although this is something I'm planning on working through with her. As a social worker, it's my opinion that the people on board who were hurt or upset by her actions deserve an explanation – sort of like the Truth and Reconciliation Committee after apartheid, although this is obviously not racially motivated. So I want to reiterate: not a punishment, but still a necessary part of the healing process.

As for an actual punishment, I'm not sure what the regular procedure is on the Barge. I know she's already served a week in Zero, although that might not have been very corrective. So... is there anything else humane and productive you can think of that might be worth exploring?

on 2013-04-13 09:50 pm (UTC)
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You're not usually this dramatic, lovey; cut 'er up? I don't see anyone 'ere suggesting that. What Mark and me'll be doing is listening to 'er. Letting 'er 'ear some of stories. That's all.

on 2013-04-13 11:47 pm (UTC)
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I'm specifically talking your suggestion to make her feel their pain, get in her head. That's just damaging her, even if it doesn't show on the surface. It'd be harm, you know it would be.

Just listening? Maybe. I don't see it ending well. I don't see it being enough. I imagine a lot of shouting.

on 2013-04-13 11:53 pm (UTC)
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That were a suggestion, not an order, and I don't see any sign of 'er picking it up.

No, well, nothing's ever going to be enough for every bugger, is it? Mark an' me'll cut off anyone doing too much shouting. We're trying our bloody best 'ere.

on 2013-04-14 03:26 am (UTC)
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Just don't see how anything more is anything but special treatment one way or another. I don't want her to get capped in the shower, I don't want to see her walk like it was no big, and where she is now is about as far in either direction as I think we could go.

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